What's in a Name?

04 Jul 2014

I always make it a point to learn the names of people with whom I am in contact:  Rosa, the milk lady.  José, the watchman at the gate.  David, the guy who charges me $1.25 to swim at the pool.  I then try to use their name the next time I see them and I am almost invariably greeted with a big smile.  I've used this as a life lesson with our kids, saying, "Treat everyone as a person.  He is 'José', not the security guard."  A good lesson for all, or so I thought, until about a month ago, we had a Peruvian pastor speak to our missionary team about cultural mistakes we make.  He pointed out that missionaries often greet Peruvians by their first names, which implies a close relationship.  When one doesn't exist, it strikes the Peruvian as too intimate and makes them feel awkward.  Could that be true?  After 14 years in Peru I've been repeating this cultural error, and not only that, but with an air of moral superiority?  Too intimate?  In a culture where you kiss strangers when greeting and one packs into city buses smashed together, bodies pressing against unfamiliar bodies?  

Amy has an adult English class where they use the Bible to teach English and discuss spiritual things.  She decided to ask her students if they agreed with what the pastor had said.  Yes.  So now we have yet another cultural hurdle to clear:  We have to figure out when to use one's first name and when to refer to them as simply, 'Señor' or 'Hermana'.

Millenium generation

01 Jul 2014

Have been so busy with end of school year activities and wind up and juggling with all the kids being back home. So scrolling through Facebook, I found this post. It will well and truly keep you busy reading and reflecting on our current generation and its relationship to institutionalised church.
I am very grateful for the way Frank Powell has described the generation and the problem with church life today in many churches. In a nutshell, his description fits our current situation and why we have to do something about it. I'm going to translate it to try and spur on the necessary changes. I'm also part of a team in our Union of churches who are going to accompany the Vitality Pathway (from Grace Covenant Churches in USA) adapted to our French context. It's a bit of the unknown and an exciting move. I just pray our own church will agree to go down that road.

Anyway, here's the link: think of us as you read it and PLEASE PRAY!

http://frankmatthewpowell.com/ten-reasons-church-absent-millennials/

Our precious young people

15 May 2014

We've been really busy lately with 3 packed weeks of ministry. We had 2 weeks of school holidays, so had a 3-day Vacation Bible Club with a space theme. The leader spoke about the astronaut James Irwin, then the life of Jesus, then the fact that Jesus is coming back one day  and are we ready for him?

 

Then a big day with 3 local youth groups. I organised the theme on 'No more electricity: how can we cope?' at the isolated home of one of our church families. There were 4 challenges to complete in teams: how to kill and prepare a chicken, how to recognise edible plants and some of their medicinal uses, collecting and storing wood, making an oil lamp. The message was 'working as a team, focus on the essential and God provides all that we need'. I used many verses from Psalm 119 and we found lots of references elsewhere to show that God's word is all sufficient and He helps us in all situations of life.

After that it was the church lunch and fellowship meeting - for the first time in a long time we were able to sit around together and look at our church's weakened situation. Thank God for this special time.

Then 3 days of National Pastors' conference where we mainly presented the Vitality Pathway - designed to help churches evaluate if they are healthy, missional churches or not, and then to accompany them through the process of getting it together again and letting the Holy Spirit take his rightful place.

Not only do we need to do this for ourselves and our churches, but for our young people who are eager to believe and to follow the Lord and who want to be convinced by seeing alive, passionate Christians living out their faith!

See my other blog page for more details and photos:

http://aheartforfrance.blogspot.fr/2014/05/our-young-people.html

A little after Easter

06 May 2014

Pascal was ministering at our other church in Lyon, so I invited a whole family over for Easter lunch on Sunday. It is also a host family for a Canadian girl over here for 3 months and they wanted her to experience a typical French luncheon which lasts for at least 3 hours! The family is also a foster family for 3 slightly disabled adults, so it was one big table and lots of conversation. Someone had given us the hind leg of a wild boar as a thank you for services rendered. I made a Simnel cake from a recipe I had in Australia. I love the symbolism of the 11 eggs representing the disciples minus Judas Iscariot.

Christ is risen! He is risen indeed!

Earthquakes and Tremors

18 Apr 2014

The cupboard behind me began to shake and then the windows. I waited to see if I was going to need to evacuate the building. I had a quick look around the room to see where would be a safe spot. Soon enough the tremor was over.

In the last couple of weeks we've had several fairly strong tremors. Last week we experiences our strongest tremor so far that came right after a major quake in northern Chile with a magnitude of 8.2. We were at a funeral and we all had to head outside and the swaying continued for what felt like several minutes. Cars stopped and the street lights shook and I could feel the earth moving from side to side. What I find scariest is the noise of windows rattling and the deep rumble of the walls shaking. Soon after, many tried to contact their families but the mobile phone network was saturated.

Geologists in the newspaper warn that the next earthquake could be "the big one". For us life continues as normal. We know that the tremors will continue. We've been more diligent to have our emergency bag ready. Recommended supplies include:

  • water
  • non-perishable food
  • whistle
  • torches
  • radio
  • spare batteries
  • sleeping bags
  • warm clothing


Emergency SuppliesSome supplies from our emergency bag

Our job is to be prepared and at the same time continue to do what we feel God has brought us here to do. We have so many opportunities to share the good news of Jesus in this city and make a difference in people's lives. We are really enjoying being here. Every tremor is a good reminder to pray for safety and to trust our Lord. We also appreciate all our friends who pray for us and emailed after the quake.

You may also want to read:

Preparing for Earthquakes

Things are spiralling, but not necessarily out of control!

16 Apr 2014

"Toute ascension vers un endroit merveilleux se fait par un escalier en spirale." Francis Bacon

 

"All goings-up towards a wonderful place pass by a spiral staircase." 

 

When we talk about getting somewhere, reaching goals, putting something into place, there's always that sense of climbing up and reaching for the heights. We often use mountain images, the sky, the heavens...

When we are young we usually think it's a matter of just getting on to it and getting there pretty directly. We older ones now realize that life is really full of spirals!

'Two steps forward; one step back' is the optimistic version.

'One step forward; two steps back' is the pessimistic version!

I think spirals are pretty. And, honestly, when you have heaps of stairs to climb, spirals are less taxing; the steps are often smaller and you can't see the end so you live in perpetual hope of arriving at the top just around the next bend! In France there are millions of spiral staircases. I can speak of the real ones in high fortified towers and gracious castles. Or I could speak of the metaphorical ones, which are hard work and difficult to be motivated for.

France is a difficult country when it comes to achieving anything from education to job creation to changing attitudes and developing productive relationships. It's not impossible, but it takes a lot of energy.

 

In our church union, we are introducing a new process which we hope will bring maturity and growth to those churches that decide to commit to this pathway. It's called Vitality. We have already talked about spirals and how to encourage them to advance rather that to go backwards. I'll let you know how we get on when the process really gets underway. Please pray for optimism and energy. We are aiming high on this one!

Pithy sayings ...

05 Apr 2014

Hello after a rather long silence!

Things have been hotting up since I last wrote and I have a mass of things to process in my head and to share with my husband and my church before I can summarize for you what it is all about.

In the meantime; here is one small reflection which will also give you a taste of things to come (with apologies to those who follow my personal blog, since it is the same article).

I collect quotes.

And bits of paper float around my desk because there is no more room on my notice board.

So I decided to tidy up by sharing these with you! You'll get the French version and I'll try and translate.

 

"La franchise ne consiste pas à dire tout ce que l'on pense mais à penser tout ce que l'on dit." Proverbe tchadien.

 

"Being frank doesn't mean saying what one thinks, but means thinking what one says." Chadian proverb

 

We just had our church's Annual General Meeting and it was rather a sad affair. We noted that the financial situation renders the possibility of paying a pastor less and less sure. What was even sadder was the heavy atmosphere and the passivity. No one, absolutely no one asked any questions or tried to engage a discussion on the whys and wherefores of our situation.

 

I made enquiries and discovered that in the past there had been some very violent discussions in the church and now they no longer dared to raise their questions or to state their positions. Our job as pastors is to change this modus operandi. Even if we have to leave in a year's time, we need to work on being open, honest, frank and clear, but in the correct way which honours those who are listening and especially in a way which is God-honouring.

Christine's Health

04 Apr 2014

It will come as quite a shock to most of you that I (Christine) have recently been diagnosed with early-onset Parkinson's Disease. I wish we could talk in person but this will have to do for now. Parkinson's Disease is a degenerative disorder of the central nervous system usually affecting older folk.


On the last day of our holidays we received the diagnosis from a neurologist in Lima. After some tests he could immediately see that my left side had a tremor, stiffness and a general weakness in the fingers (the reasons for the visit). By the grace of God I am generally healthy and strong. Most people do not notice the trembling.

We got a second opinion when we got home to Arequipa, this time loaded with lots of questions and also accompanied by our Doctor (who happens to be our Mission Director here). The conclusion was the same. Recently we have connected by Skype and email with an Australian specialist which is very helpful to us as well. I am taking medicine to help but there is no cure for the disease. To help maintain movement in my body and encourage general strength all over the body it is important to exercise. This can slow progress the disease. So now exercising is an important priority of my time.

We would value your prayers at this time as David and I adjust to the prognosis. The Doctors don't think it will advance too quickly (only God knows) so at this point we will not change our focus here in Peru. We love it here and since we can get the medicines, health-care and physiotherapy we will continue in what we feel God has called us to. I even taught my first Bible study in our English conversation class this week (written in early Feb) which was exciting as it involved teaching people who don't know Christ. What a privilege! We pray they will come to know God's forgiveness and love.

The main impact on me is slight clumsiness on my left side and slowness in typing, both of which I can live with. I do not feel sick though I do get tired. Part of me doesn't even want to tell people because I don't want to be seen as a victim or different when I feel so normal but I know that your prayers can do so much. Thank you!

We don't understand why this has come to us and maybe we don't fully understand the repercussions just yet as they seem a bit distant but we know we have a God who is faithful and we are trusting him.
"You (the LORD) will keep in perfect peace
those whose minds are steadfast,
because they trust in you.
Trust in the Lord forever,
for the Lord, the Lord himself, is the Rock eternal". Isaiah 26:3-4

Thank you kindly for your prayers and generosity.

No one Wants to be an Interesting Patient

02 Apr 2014

Last Thursday I did an ultrasound on a 46 y/o patient who had spent most of the night with fever and chills and was having difficulty urinating.  I saw a 2-cm stone in his bladder and when the patient moved it would sink to the lowest part of his bladder.  "You need to get that taken out!" I said to myself, who happened to be the patient.  

I called an orthopedic surgeon that I know and asked him if he could recommend a urologist.  I called the urologist's office, but no one answered.  Not a good sign.  Amy went with me in a taxi to the lab to give them a urine sample for culture and sensitivities before I started some Cipro and we went to the urologist's office.  We were told he'd show up in about an hour and a half.  He doesn't take appointments.  "Let's go be first in line," I said as we went to wait in his waiting room.  I was pretty miserable, with fever and an irritated bladder.  By 6:45 he saw me, but said that he couldn't take out the stones without cutting my belly open, since he didn't have the sort of equipment he needed, like a Holmium Laser.  I didn't care at that moment how he would operate, just that he'd get that stone out, but after 2 days of antibiotics, I felt a lot better and started searching for better options.  It didn't look like anyone in Lima had equipment either, so I checked with a urologist in Omaha, but I wouldn't be able to get the stones out until April 29th.  With that motivation, I did find a urologist in Lima with the laser, and it appears that I will be able to go to Lima and get the stones removed on Tuesday!  I always think things like this make physicians better doctors.  Pray for an uneventful procedure!

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